I live with my partner and he just came back from a trip to visit his family in Germany. He had invited a female friend to go along, as she was a mutual friend of his sister’s and she was going to be there as well. I couldn’t join because I had work and he didn’t want me to go… BUT it turns out that he had actually first gone off to Salzburg alone with that female friend (just him and her) for 3 days before actually going to his parents’ house to meet up with his sister. He told me nothing about it and I found out when I asked if I could see the photos in his camera. He says she is just a friend and nothing weird. The problem is, he just had an affair w another girl a few months ago, and we spoke about what my boundaries were – and I made it clear that I did not accept it when people went off on holiday with a person of the opposite sex, even if they were ‘just friends’. He had said he understood and I was trying to regain trust in him. But turns out he lied again. Why???
